What happened to Desi Arnaz after he divorced Lucy?

"The things that got me where I was, were the things I couldn't do when I got there."

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Aren't you glad there weren't reporters there to document you at your lowest? No matter who we are and what we've accomplished, we all have times when we're not at our best. That's just the nature of life. Luckily, for most of us, the paparazzi don't care if we have a bad hair day or a misstep in our relationship. Unfortunately for Desi Arnaz, though, fame brings scrutiny, and everybody wants to know the truth.

A 1967 interview with Cynthia Lowry of the Associated Press gives us a glance at the famed actor/producer's time away from the public eye.

"The things that got me where I was, were the things I couldn't do when I got there," said Arnaz.

By then, he was a few years removed from his divorce from Lucille Ball. He'd sold his share of Desilu Productions and quit show business altogether. Arnaz vanished from the entertainment world, retiring to his horse farm. He spent his days on his boat, on the track, or at the golf course. 

But after three years, Arnaz was ready to return to Hollywood. He'd processed his meteoric rise and understood what went wrong and why.

"I got where I didn't want to be because things began parlaying," said Arnaz.

"We had a little studio and I Love Lucy and then to compete we had to get a larger studio and from there on we had to get out or get bigger. We wound up with three big studios. But by 1962 I decided I didn't want to be [Universal Studios head honcho] Lew Wasserman. I wanted to be [film director] Willie Wyler."

Instead, he became neither, and Desi Arnaz was a ghost for three years. He spent his time breeding and racing thoroughbred horses, buying alfalfa, and selling foals.


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ASperos 2 months ago
Too bad things couldn’t have worked out!!! They seemed to truly love each other!
sagafrat69 3 months ago
My mom told me a story in the '70s when I was a kid watching an "I Love Lucy" episode. She said she was at a club in Los Angeles in the '50s with some friends dancing. In walked Arnaz with his entourage. He asked my mom for a dance which she gave him. I asked her if he was respectful and she said yes. The one thing she did say was she knew he was drunk because she could smell the alcohol on his breath. A great man who changed television. Unfortunately he had demons inside of him that kept him from doing even greater things after "Lucy". The sober,loving and loyal husband of Lucy Ricardo he definitely was not.
cperrynaples 3 months ago
A poor choice of words in that last paragraph! it creates an image of Desi haunting his co-stars...LOL! They could have said he dropped out of show biz! He did have another wife and he got money from selling his share of Desilu! Fun Fact: he was credited as a producer of the first season of The Lucy Show!
MikefromJersey 3 months ago
Desi didn't get the credit- with the general public - he deserved for all the behind the scenes innovations he did on I Love Lucy. No kidding, he was called a genius. Especially with his savvy deal with CBS where
in exchange for taking less money to produce I Love Lucy, he and Lucy got ownership of the episodes after
they were shown 2 or 3 times. In todays money we are talking billions of dollars.
Unfortunately he became a alcoholic, he was obviously drunk in the last - or next to last - episode
of the hour long Lucy sequel series.
The worst - and it's sad to see - was his appearance on The Virginian as a Mexican border official.
He was stinking drunk, the producers should be ashamed of themselves for not replacing him,
he deserved better, if only out of respect for his pioneering work on I Love Lucy and building the
DesiLu empire.
Runeshaper 3 months ago
Sounds like he wanted to get away from his old life, or just do things that he enjoyed.
cperrynaples 3 months ago
That interview was proably to promote The Mothers-In-Law, a show he produced! It actually ran on MeTV years ago!
MrsPhilHarris 3 months ago
There is an interview with Lucy and her other husband where she calls Desi a loser. Rather disrespectful.
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Well, I know the story about when a fan asked Lucy to autograph an ILL video! As she signed, she said, "You know, I don't get a f---ing dime from these"! She & Desi signed all rights over to CBS in the late '50's! Eventually, Lucie Arnaz won the right to images of her parents, so she gets some residuals!
I heard on the Joe Franklin Show - in the early 90's I think - a producer saying that "I Love
Lucy" had generated as an income stream, world wide to date, over a billion dollars at that point.
Sounded over the top to me but since it literally was running most everywhere I guess
that was legit, and that amount was 30 years ago.
Cperry, you amaze me with all the TV knowledge you have, I'd put you easily in the
top five people who post here as the most informed.
I didn't know Lucy and Desi had sold back the rights, perhaps thats how they financed
their studio's putting so much product on air at that time.
sagafrat69 MikefromJersey 3 months ago
I do remember the very sad and short-lived "Life With Lucy" show. It was clear then that the magic was gone and her time in television was over. Lucy and Gordon were life long friends much like her and Vivian Vance. I believe unless I'm wrong that Gale Gordon was her first choice to play Fred Mertz on ILL. Of course he ended up playing Ricky's boss and had a great run on "Our Miss Brooks" with Eve Arden and Richard Crenna. I agree he was one of the funniest straight men in the history of comedy. Doesn't get the credit he deserves.
MikefromJersey sagafrat69 3 months ago
I agree with you 100%. It takes very savvy viewers who take a deep dive into the Art of
entertainment to see what the actors/comics do to put a scene over, and appreciate it.
Thats why I like these MeTV boards/places to post, there are many many people here who
are hep to what goes on in showbiz.
Bapa1 3 months ago
I remember when he hosted SNL in 1976(?)
cperrynaples Bapa1 3 months ago
Yes, Desi Jr. played Ricky in alternative "pilots" for ILL! Gilda Radner played Lucy! He also did Laugh-In which ran opposite Here's Lucy!
Cougar90 Bapa1 2 months ago
I remember that one during the shows first season in February, 1976. He was introduced by Dan Ackroyd to gave a reading of the poem, "Habbawalky". (As he called it.)
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